Looks matter!

Looks always form the first impression. The person sitting opposite to you is going to notice your looks first of all. You thus need to pay extra attention to your looks. These speed dating events are usually organized in clubs or bars. You should thus dress accordingly. Men should wear smart trousers, shirt and good polished shoes. Your hair should be combed properly. Clean your teeth and hands properly. Women should also present themselves nicely. However women are usually better than men in this field. Looks will play a key role in attracting your date so make sure you put your best foot forward.

Relaxing is important!

Don't be nervous. Be calm and composed in front of your date. You will need to ask questions as well as answer some in the allotted time limit. Questions are important so that you get to know your date better. Your concentration will be ruined if you become nervous. You should be confident however do not be over confident. Look calm as well as interested. This is likely to attract your date. You will learn what is right and what is not through various dates that you go on.

Keep on conversing!

It's important to continue the conversation. There should be no silent moments. You can talk about things that you both are interested in. You can talk about what different sexes like and dislike. Women can learn about sports, something which men love. You can put humor in your conversations. Make most of the time to know your date better. Show that you are interested; this will make your date more interested in you.

Go slow on alcohol!

You should not indulge into too much alcohol before your date. Have the complimentary drink which you get as soon as you enter but don't drink after that. People don't like taking to a person who is fully drunk. The allotted time is less so you have to be quick with your questions and answers and for this you have to be alert which is not possible when you are drunk.

Enjoy!

Have fun! Speed dating is all about fun so you must enjoy fully. You will be more confident if you enjoy your time and that will show on your face. So have fun!

Contact quickly!

Contact your date quickly once it's fixed. However don't seem desperate, that won't work in your favor. Speed dating people will be expecting you to contact your date soon. You should either give a call or email them before anyone else does that.

These tips will help you to win over your date in the short duration of time that is available.